Monday, April 28, 2008

Forgiveness, driving, tags, song

recently my church had talks by mr. Tan Soo Inn. One of the topics was the mechanics of forgiveness. Well during the talk i was thinking to myself, "hey, i already know how to forgive as i have done it so many times in my life, and i wasn't angry with anyone anymore who wounded me. So nevermind lah this talk, i'll just sit down and listen".Well recently i was quite down because someone hurt me quite bad. And everytime i come to God at night, i feel something holding me back. The reason being i have not forgiven that person yet. So i looked trough the notes of mr. Soo Inn, pretty intersting and true.

In 1 point he said that forgiveness is not:
a) forgetting
b)reconciliation
c)excusing
d)letting go the demands of the law
e)retaining old ways of relating

and the rest of the points goes as follow:
1)forgiveness begins with our coming to terms with our woundedness
2)it involved seeing the person who hurt us through Jesus' eyes
3)then we need to see ourselves as God sees us
4)Finally we need to release those who have hurt us from the prisons of our hearts
5)in doing so we find healing for ourselves =)

yes i have finally forgiven that person, when i think of what that someone has done to me, i'm not angry anymore ^^. See how God works? So people, don't take anything God puts u in lightly. It might not be useful at the present time, but in time to come it'll surely be.

on a different note, went for 2nd driving yest..woohoo!! and i tell u wei, i drove up to 95km on the highway. Syok gila!! hahah. The best thing was the instructor was saying "oh pergilah laju, i suka laju"..wahaha. Learnt 3-point turn and the bukit thingy. Too bad today they said it was raining so i had to cancel my class.

Name 5 people you can think at the top of your head

1)Colin

2)Joanne

3)Fish ranger(wei shern)

4)Mabel

5)Sarah

Don't read the questions underneath until you write the names of all 5 people. This is a lot funnier if you actually randomly list the names first...NO CHEATING!DON'T LOOK AHEAD UNLESS YOU FILLED UPTHE TOP!

1. HOW DID YOU MEET 1 (colin)?
umm..i cant really remember. i've known him since very long ago

2. On a scale of 1 -10 how would u rate your friendship with 1 (colin) ?
hahaha 9.5?he's my beloved man! =]

3. How long have you known 4 (Mabel)?
Hmm met her in rbs on 26th Dec, you calculate the days lah

4. How do you know number 3 (wei shernl)?
i met him while my mom was looking for fishes, hahaha. nah i met him when i was very young, probably when i was 3-5, cant remember

5. Wheres 5(sarah)?
shah alam

6. A fact about number 1 (colin) ?
he's blur lol. he's a very great guy =)

7. Who is 4(mabel) going out with?
haha i think she's single but she lives with BGR (big giant and round), her fake but real dog

8. What does 1(colin) do for a living?
studying in taylors

9. Would you live with number 3 (weishernl)?
i'll kill myself..hahah xD

10. What do you like about number 2(joanne) ?
oh okay...this is a hard question. hahaha!! she's bubbly, fun, a very good friend, and a very good secret keeper ^^

11. Do you miss number 5(sarah) ?
yes of course, and everyone else =)

12. What’s your opinion of number 2(joanne) ?
weird, mata sepet

13. What's your favorite memory with number 5(sarah) ?
lol

14. What would you do if number 1 and 2 were going out(colin and joanne)?
they'll both get murdered by people from the same place hahaha =)))))

15. Ever had a long conversation with 5(sarah) ?
yeap

16. Have you ever slept at 2's house(joanne)?
she din invite me =[

17. Do you hang out with 3 a lot(weishern)?
not as much as last time

18. Who have you known the longest?
between colin and weishern, i dunno!

19. How often do you talk to 1(colin) ?
quite often

20. What about 2(joanne) ?
everyday

21. Have you ever thought 3 more than a friend(weishern)?
hahahah sounds so weird but ya (no its nothing to do with gay issue)

22. Would you go out for a date with 5( sarah)?
ask me out! ask me out!..hahaha

23. Do you dream about 2(joanne) ?
yeap, NIGHTMARES!!! hahaha

24. What did no 4 did to you that you can never forget(mabel)?
the little gift from evangel =)..thank you so much!

25. What's 3 hobby(weishern)?
he likes sports, eating, sleeping, getting fat

i tag :
mabel
britannia
colin
anyone who wants to do it
bye!
but before you go
cheeck this out!!
i love this song so much ^^


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